Because on
November 9th, Roa’a is going to take TOEFL, I thought I’d better
help her make some preparation for TOEFL rather than spending too much time on
the pronunciation project. Therefore, we just went over the pronunciation
project very quickly. For the recording part, it was for advertising a product and
she said she didn’t prepare well so she would like to do it by herself later
and showed her recording to me next time. But she already came up with the
topic of curling iron, which she uses sometimes. And because she had a headscarf
that I couldn’t see her hair, she offered to show me the pictures of her hair!
That was the first time I saw the hair of who had headscarf everyday! I was
surprised that she looks so beautiful with curly hair in her photos. And she
told me that is why females from Saudi Arabia have headscarf everyday, and only women,
her husband and father are allowed to see her hair, because they don’t want
other males have imaginary thoughts for her. I was shocked and asked her how
about her hair before marriage, she said most girls have headscarf even before
they get married, but for her, because her father is open minded, so she didn’t
use headscarf when she was young. This cultural thing is so interesting to me,
and it makes me realize how different we are in various cultures, that we
should respect every culture.
Then
we began to do some grammar exercises. Since practicing speaking is one of my
goals as well as grammar points, I made Roa’a speak out the grammar exercises
and discuss with her if she had any questions related. I found a website
About.com which there are some TOEFL grammar exercises, and I brought my laptop
with me when we had a meeting. Roa’a was all right speaking out the questions
with a little accent. However, she had problems with some grammar points. For
example, when she was doing this question: _______ that
the American Indian crossed a land bridge into North America from what is now
Russia. She couldn’t get why the answer is
It is thought rather than It was thought, I told her that because it is a
fact, thus we should use the present tense. And no matter people at that time
or people in modern society think that the
American Indian crossed a land bridge into North America from what is now
Russia. She also had problems recognizing some singular and plural verbs. When
she was answering the question: Singer and entertainer, ____________ for his
beautiful and expressive voice. Even though the choices are: was
Frank Sinatra famous; famous was Frank Sinatra; Frank Sinatra was
famous that she didn’t need to choose the be-verb, she was confused why it is was instead of were, because she saw two
identities in this sentence. I told her even there are two identities, they
refer to the same one person, thus for one person, the be-verb should be the singular.
Then I thought maybe she would also have problems with choosing the verbs for like
none of them, he as well as I, either he or she, so I wrote them down and made
her search for or make sure of the correct usage of them. We took about one
hour finishing about 30 grammar questions, and in generally she did a good job
that her accuracy is about 65/100.
We even talked about her trip
to Washington D.C, and her experiences in embassy
to ask for scholarship, which makes me feel she treats me not only as a
language partner, but also a good friend. And I do wish her a good score in her
TOEFL this Saturday!